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First of all, some really cool news about that website.... We are working hard to provide you a french version of our community. At that time, it's just a copy and paste and we do not have a full version but we are doing our best to translate it as quick as possible. Stay tuned to know more about it! Then, here is the core of the post... Las week, I let you with a weird position or mindset. In fact, I have experienced so many ups and downs those last times that I doubt a lot about my own capacity to see some positive outcomes.. I know that I am not the most positive person or optimistic person in the world, yet, I have struggled for so long that it may be a way to explain my frame of mind. To be honest, I really ... I mean really don't know what I should do or choose in my life. None of the possible solutions is acceptable according to my standards (and I could say those standards are not too high... i.e.: having enough to pay the rent for a 1 bedroom flat in a small small town with no extra or pay for the grocery) I am sure that something's great could happen to me even if I don't see it right now... but what? and when? Take care Ladies... Take your time to assess what's best for you especially when you are in the middle of the storm, the light is harder to see. Hi Ladies, I'm so confused and sorry ... I did not give up on yourself, I just had some tough technical issues that force me to delay the launching of our product until this week. In fact, we have worked hard to solve the problems and to provide you the best customer service possible. Yet, we wouldn't have been able to launch the product last week. We have made the difficult decision to postpone the launching to provide you a better service and better protections for your purchase. Hi Ladies, This is our first post for March 2014 which means that it's time for us to embrace a new theme for the entire month AND talk you about our huge announcement... We have chosen to celebrate Spring which means also spring cleaning and decluttering.... We are going to declutter your life to reach a higher level of happiness on a daily basis. As time passing by, I've realized that it's very beneficial to declutter our environment at least one time a year. This decluttering process implies your closet, your home as well as your friendship/ relationships when these relations are toxic. How do I recognize a toxic relation? A relation in an ideal world is something that pushes you to the best... You are able to count on that person as well as she counts on you. A friendship is a positive force that leads you to become better, to give your 100% when it's tough or to take some risks when they are worth it. Yet, a relation could also become toxic when your so called friend is full of criticism, sarcasm...when this person is never near you when tough moments are coming...but you always have to be there when they have broken a nail. This is unacceptable!! A toxic relation comes from insecurity, it is built around your friendship needs and not a willingness to share a higher purpose. You can recognize a toxic relation when you assess objectively what happens between you and your so called friend. When you are used for your qualities but neglected for your needs... this is TOXIC... When you are alone to solve an issue whereas you've asked for help, this is TOXIC... When this friend is giving up on you because you are not as tall, nice, cute... this is TOXIC... You are not guilty about that situation yet you are responsible to make an end!! You deserve a better relation than that. One way to recognize that you are worth it is be fully aware of your own qualities and skills. When you are grounded into your abilities, you can make better choices for your life. But, honestly, it's not easy to be able to define our qualities, this is why we have designed and launch our first product: Discover your core values. To celebrate that launching, we are giving for FREE a eerie of 3 videos. Just follow that link Until next week, we would like to know how you've dealt with toxic relations and how you've felt after. Remember that Obviously B. is your community to discover who you are, cherish yourself and reach your own potential. Good morning Ladies, I hope you had a wonderful Valentine's day with a lot of love, a lot of sharing and a huge sense of pride to see your image in the mirror. Today, I want to get deeper in our love thematic with a post that will provide you some tips to raise your self esteem to feel more incredible than ever. Ladies, As you know we are celebrating Valentine's day today... and as far as I'm concerned I know how tough it is to look at all the couples around us when we are single/widow/divorced... That's why today, I want to switch that feeling and give you a little gift to remember how strong, wonderful, unique, cute, generous, bright, beautiful and amazing YOU ARE NOW!! Hi Ladies, How was your last week? Did you take at least one minute per day to love yourself? (For those amazing ladies who did not catch what we talk about, feel free to read my previous post from February, 3rd) During the last week, I was thinking "OMG, I hope I did not make a mistake with the girls when I told her to love themselves, because I'm not sure they will cherish who they ALREADY ARE and NOT who they are supposed to be" So, for this week, I've decided to dig deep about that notion about loving who YOU ARE NOW. As far as I know, I've been told to love myself to begin any change in my life... Heck yes but HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO DO IT ? Ladies, Monday, brand new week, brand new day...almost brand new month... To sum up, the perfect ideal keep it fantastic amazing moment to.... build a new positive habit for YOURSELF... It's time to discover the secret weapon to be amazing! Yes, YOU...the little tiny courageous thing who spend all her time dealing with family issues and professional emergencies because your kid is too young to dress up by himself and your boss is too happy to know that he could count on you... This month, from the bottom of my heart, I urge you to celebrate LOVE...but not for somebody else... no no... too easy... and you are not that type of girl who makes it easy in your life... NOPE... You are going to LOVE YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY no matter what could happen in your life... Love is the strongest and deepest feeling that leads you to get over mountain, cross half the globe to meet your lover, non stop looking at your kids when they have disappeared... All that love that you give to others, it's time to take some and use it for your own purpose. Love is not incompatible with self respect or self esteem... In fact, I truly believe that when you really love yourself, then you can raise your level of self esteem and self respect. In civil law, we are used to say that we can't get more that we'got... In wellness, we could use it too.. We can't beat our 100% in our job, hobbies, family, friends, community involvement when you are not strong about who you are, what you're made of and how valuable you are. Well, now, you may ask... she's sweet but what.. how do I love myself? What a good question... Simply by paying attention to your reactions, by cultivating your passion, by taking time for you only, by making what you love (reading, shopping, sewing, crafting, hiking, biking, boxing, having some spa treatments...). At the very beginning, it is tough to take time...to think that we are legitimate to take that time for you and your inner wellness. One minute a day is a great start to begin... If you can think of you just one minute a day, you will plant the seed of your personal love. Then, it will be easier to think of you for two minutes a day.... Each step, each action you do for you will give you some wonderful rewards as soon as you try it... Feel free to give a chance to love in your life. Ladies, until the next week, I want you to try to love yourself for a couple of minutes each day... As usual, you can comment, share, tweet and ask for more. Obviously B. is your p |
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